I am definitely leaning towards this cruise. If not with my family, I have a friend that's very interested. Being fairly new to "Cruise Crazies" I am really looking forward to meeting everybody. You sound like a great and fun group of people!!! Early November is perfect! I prefer a balcony cabin mid-ship but aft also works for me. And, Joey your lunch idea sounds great!!!
Out of the 6 ships I have been on, so far I would have to say the Star Princess. It's a large ship but not a mega-ship. This ship also always had a variety of activities - something for everyone. It also always had a choice of evening shows with 2 different theaters or movies, etc..
What sticks out in my mind the most is....the friendly, open and welcoming people on the ship - both passengers and crew. I had a preconceived notion of people that went on cruises were "stuffy" and "snobby", so I was pleasantly surprised to be proven wrong. It is quite the opposite .
My favorite would have to be the shows with the comedians, singers, magicians, jugglers, etc. But, I also enjoy just making my own entertainment - sitting on the pool deck (in the shade) with a good book or puzzle - people-watching and looking out at the ocean.
As a new member I'm really looking forward to this cruise. Out of the 3 lines you mentioned Princess is my favorite but I would go with the majority. It's a cruise I'm not choosy.
We usually take our time getting off the ship unless we're not going to be in port long. It's nice to go to breakfast after the initial rush and have a leisurely meal.
I understand why they have all the new amenities. It attracts families and younger cruisers. I myself prefer the basics and wish they'd concentrate on perfecting those.